Avoidance:
The push, the pull…the unseen force that threatens to destroy the will of the person
who has done everything in their power
to avoid that choice which they can not, or will not, give into
The mental strain continues until the system overloads
and weakness takes control, for the barest sliver of a moment;
long enough for that decision which has successfully been avoided; until that moment, becomes accomplished!
So what was achieved in the end?
Acceptance of the fact that; what had previously been avoided,
could have been accomplished sooner; averting the stress of it all…but, would that be in their best interest?
What was the struggle all about; why was it so important to resist, if you eventually gave in anyway?
that is the lesson…hidden in between the push and the pull
A rough gem of knowledge, polished bright by the friction
knowledge which will allow you to understand what will
be revealed to you in another life lesson moment… at a future date; it will become an opportunity for in-depth growth once you understand the layers of the lesson
Was the avoided topic destructive to you or another? Why was the pull so strong? Was the experience beneficial in the end? Why did you resist it and push against the experience from the beginning? Could the choice be unhealthy or unsafe for you, or another person? Are you capable of making good choices without guidance or professional help?
Use that knowledge to grow and positively affect others…
that is the real reason you suffered in the process;
so that you would remember; and, not waste all that was gained in the struggle.
So, what are you avoiding and why; have you begun to figure it out?
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