Just wondering if anyone reading this has stumbled around in the darkness looking for the light? It seems lately that life events have evolved in a such a way that while living a regular life it seems that the darkness has intruded. Family and friends have been going through trials and challenges that have seemed insurmountable. It has touched us and made us sad and fearful of what will happen next in the journey.
Some of those trials and challenges have been self made and others are of the variety that that seem to be the result of stumbling around in the darkness looking for the light switch only to step in someone else’s mess…you know the kind of mess…the kind that you need to scrape off of the bottom of your shoe. There are repercussions and consequences in each of those situations and at times, all seems lost and hopeless. It is hard not to let it affect you if you are a caring person who can’t bear to see those you love suffering.
I have to keep reminding myself to keep my eyes off of the situation…keep my eyes looking towards God and his power to work through all situations. That is not an easy thing to do when things are desperate and have such steep valleys to get through.
Our human minds can only see the small puzzle pieces before us…especially the difficulties; we usually seem incapable of seeing the larger picture or outcome, from any given situation. It is overwhelming to not be able to see into the future. We sometimes think that we can avoid the pain and dissappointments that life will eventually throw our way… in fact, most of us would choose to opt out of the more severe situations; choosing instead to surf the crest of ONLY the good times.
If all that we experience in life was perfect and rosy how would we know to value those same perfect things…we would have nothing to compare it to. Our human nature would never let us know the depth of pain, loss, isolation or injustice. Nor would we learn on whom to depend in those times of despair. God is always there, ready and willing to guide us and lift the burden from our hearts and minds.
We only need to remember this and surround ourselves with others who understand that; so that when we are buried under the crush of each tragedy and heartbreak, and can’t seem to find a way to pray and dig our way out…we can learn to count on those who can, and will support us, to help us find the light in the darkness.
It is all about growth and compassion…connecting with others. We all have had burdens to bear at one time or another. How much easier is it to go through those times when we are feeling supported by compassionate people? Listening skills are important and so is a willingness to weather the storm with another person.
Do you know someone who is struggling in some kind of darkness or difficulty? How can you shine a light in the midst of what they are going through? Do you struggle with what to say or do? Most of us do, but still for those who feel surrounded by the darkness; any attempt to shine a light is appreciated and considered a lifeline in the midst of a storm.
A kind word, a card or letter, a phone call or an action taken meant to reduce the difficulty that another is going through can be a huge light in the darkness. These are the things that a person struggling remembers after the darkness. Risk reaching out in your relationship with others and become a light of encouragement to someone today…you will be surprised how much of a positive impact it can have.
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Oh, Rainy.
We are all ONE so when one of us hurts it affects us all. And so many are hurting now with all manner of illness, situations and difficulties. It’s a test of our faith, that’s for sure.
Getting it out in print, like your blog, or by keeping a journal is a healthy way to express our grief, sadness, frustration and fear, as well as the anger and resentment that might crop up. Having a strong conviction and good relationship with our Creator will help us to face life’s lessons and grow from them.
I wish Peace to you and yours.
Hugs
Mother Connie