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		<title>Churches Are You Sold Out</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 05 Mar 2011 18:55:10 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rainy</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Do churches have an obligation to avoid advertising activities/businesses that conflict with traditional spiritual values? Should they be selling ads on their online sites that are contrary to religious teachings?]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>I am going to step into some doggy do do here&#8230;but today on my Twitter stream I had someone wanting me to follow them.  It was a pastor from a big church and he had a very large following.  I did what I always do and check their profile and looked at their Twitter stream.  What I saw not only saddened me but it made me mad.  I want to challenge my readers here to think about their church and do a little comparison challenge.   Churches are you sold out for God&#8230;or just sold out?</strong></p>
<p><strong>Within the first few tweets on their page, I saw tweets prompting the reader to &#8220;learn how to play poker&#8221;, to buy a specific insurance, to learn about electronic cigarettes, to team up with a beer company to buy the best T-shirts promoting beer, get a payday loans, promoting certain credit cards&#8230;etc. I understand the need to make money.  I get that churches struggle to raise funds&#8230;but, to me this smacks of leading people into financial slavery, gamboling, destructive health habits, encouraging addictions and gives a stamp of approval to activities that ought not to be encouraged.<br />
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<p><strong> This is a church that is &#8220;sold out&#8221; plain and simple.  If you don&#8217;t get my drift; these are paid ads that this pastor and church are condoning by putting tweets up on their page and trying to make money off of each link.  Understand, this is only my opinion; however, some of these are things that are being promoted are contrary to traditional teachings of the scriptures.</strong></p>
<p><strong>Can I tell you what I didn&#8217;t see on this Pastor&#8217;s Twitter stream?  There was no mention of God,no  Godly things, no tweeting of scripture&#8230;no building up of the spiritual nature of the readers&#8230;no encouragement to seek a relationship with God.  It upsets me&#8230;because I do believe in the power of social media to influence people; because of that, I believe that this pastor and his church are missing the mark.  Not only are they wasting the opportunity to win souls for Christ&#8230;they are in effect&#8230;leading them away from a life that is dedicated to strengthening the readers relationship with salvation and living a life of service for God.</strong></p>
<p><strong>How do you feel when you hear or see such things?  To me it feels like spiritual prostitution.  I would not want to be judged by God for erring in such a hurtful way to the Kingdom of God.  Scripture says that to those that have been given much, much is expected in return.  They have the opportunity to win souls for Christ and they had best be about the Heavenly Father&#8217;s business. It is hard to have respect for Gods values when some teachers, preachers and those in spiritual leadership make it appear as if it is ok to participate in these areas of life that God instructs us to avoid.<br />
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<p><strong>Do you challenge yourself to be authentic to your Christian faith online?  How do you make sure that you aren&#8217;t contrasting what you say you believe with your personal conduct and interactions online?<br />
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		<title>Charlie Sheen Bites The Hand That Feeds Him</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 25 Feb 2011 15:57:27 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rainy</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Charlie Sheen gives interviews that appear to bite the hands that feed him...after his television show stops production. Will his erratic behavior end with Charlie Sheen's obituary?]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Unless you deliberately try to avoid the news regarding people in the media, you have surely heard the tragic tale of actor Charlie Sheen and the downward spiral that he has been on with regards to his public displays of out of control, alleged drug use, partying, and seemingly non-sensical interviews that have Charlie Sheen appearing to bite the hand that feeds him.   There have been news stories about porn stars, domestic violence, alleged drug use, drug rehab, custody issues, contract negotiations, not to mention, a forced hiatus from his television show and disgruntled co-workers.</p>
<p>That show, called Two and a Half Men, has stopped production on their show for the rest of the season; since Charlie has made a public statement on interviews that disparages the producers of the show, television show creator Chuck Lorre, Alcoholic Anonymous, his ex wife, and women in general.   He says horribly vile things about Chuck Lorre and shows nothing but contempt for women, in my opinion, when he says things about women such as he has fame and those women have nothing and that all they will ever have is that night with him and that he will forget about them as soon as they leave.  He says that he is &#8220;special&#8221; and will never be one of the AA because they are a &#8220;bootleg cult&#8221;.  Seriously?  <span id="more-2934"></span></p>
<p>It comes across through many of these examples that he considers himself above everyone else.  He believes that he alone cured his (in his opinion) so called disease with his own mind.  He has made recent statements to the fact that he is in control of his partying.   The truth of the matter is that he couldn&#8217;t be more wrong.  He has been in legal trouble for alleged domestic violence, he has had custody issues with his ex-wife who does try to support him in public while at the same time  tries to shield their daughters from the horror of these out of control antics that are harming him physically, emotionally, spiritually,professionally, and financially. His young sons with his second wife are very young&#8230;but they will grow up with the legacy of their father&#8217;s public displays as well.</p>
<p>People who work with individuals who struggle with addictions will give you all of the facts on how addicts fool themselves into thinking that they are &#8220;in control&#8221; and the rest of the world is the one with a problem.  Charlie may not live on the streets, he might not be homeless, he might not be stealing to support his habits&#8230;but he is in denial about his lifestyle choices and the effect that it is having on those who care about him (meaning his friends and family).</p>
<p>He has children that are growing up; and they are now, and will continue to be affected by his behavior and the choices that he makes.  He has a famous brother Emilio Estevez and then of course, there is his father Martin Sheen they have stepped up and said they continue to love him, support him and pray for him.  He has ex-wives who love him enough to try to work through their issues to maintain some sort of relationship for their children. Who can help an adult who is in a situation such as this? Can he be forced to get help through an emergency order? Is he having some sort of emotional breakdown or is he just acting out because of the damage caused by his partying?  He appears to feel all powerful and that no one has the right to tell him no, or draw a line in the sand regarding his conduct.   He has fans that he asks to support him; even though he is acting in ways that are hard to support.  He wants them to help him fight against the injustice of it all&#8230;saying that his fans are his people&#8230;not &#8220;theirs&#8221;.</p>
<p>In response, to the decision of his show stopping production, he slams the powers that be for stopping it&#8230;saying that they are keeping money from him, his family, and the crew of the show.   In my opinion however, if they continued to produce the show they would be irresponsible&#8230;enablers of a man who seems to be bent on self-destruction.  A week or two ago, there were articles that claimed that Charlie said that he only partied when he was bored and not working.  When he was working, he says, he was fine.   There are consequences to behaviors&#8230;and recent pictures of him show him possibly having had his teeth affected by his conduct.</p>
<p>Relationships suffer, professional connections become damaged and finances can become scarce because of a persons addictions.  In his case, this doesn&#8217;t just affect Charlie&#8230;he has a whole crew that is going to suffer consequences because of this situation.   A professional intervention needs to happen, because even though he says he is clean&#8230;that doesn&#8217;t mean he is stable.   I say, if he isn&#8217;t careful to get medical help, put his rehab knowledge and education to heart, and live addiction free&#8230;he is going to be bored to DEATH; and, we will be reading Charlie&#8217;s very sad obituary.</p>
<p>That would be a terrible waste of life; how much better to see him find his way to health and wellness and use his experience to help others in the same situation?  People who do not have fame, fortune or money deal with addictions too and the consequences are no less severe for them or their loved ones.</p>
<p>What are your thoughts? Do you love someone who struggles with addictions?  What have you done to survive the ups and downs?  Where did you find help?</p>
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		<title>Bath Salts Use And Abuse</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 07 Feb 2011 16:38:41 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rainy</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Bath salts are being used and abused for a drug induced "high".  This is not illegal but it is a very dangerous trend that many parents,police &#038; medical personnel are just becoming aware of.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It is sad but true, bath salts have a genuine use for the body interested in health and wellness; but, bath salts are now being misused as a drug to achieve some sort of a high.  Bath salts are generally used as a body soak and exfoliant.  When used in this way, true bath salts (typically epsom salts mixed with fragrance beads and water softening agents) are a balm to achy muscles and dry skin. These are not dangerous!</p>
<p>However, there are products being labeled as &#8220;bath salts&#8221; that are powders packed in small tea bag sized envelopes and advertised as legal substitutions; merely to make money.  They are  being sold on the shelves of convience stores, truck stops and head shops all around the country; as well as online.  They are marketed as bath salts, when those who produce these products know full well that they are not being used for that purpose.</p>
<p>Those who produce, market or sell these items should be held accountable for those who have had their lives destroyed by their products. Their intended use is for individuals who are looking for a drug induced high.  Business selling them should be forced to removed them from their stores in my opinion.  In fact, some states &amp; communities are banning their sales&#8230;but, we need to increase awareness of this issue; before the use of these products becomes more widespread. <span id="more-2894"></span></p>
<p>The powders are snorted, smoked or injected.  This product is equal in intensity to meth in it&#8217;s effects on the human body and mind.  It can be addictive even when the user experiences terrible effects during usage.  Some people have committed murder, attempted suicide or just gone on a violent, destructive bender while using these products.  Emergency rooms, police and poison control centers are seeing an increase in calls in areas where these products are being sold.</p>
<p>Children and adults can purchase a package of &#8220;bath salts&#8221; for approximately $20 or so.  Unfortunately these things can be purchased online too.  A parent seeing one of these packages may not realize that it is a drug with very harmful effects.  These products have names like Cosmic blast, Vanilla Sky, Red Dove, White Lightning, Hurricane Charlie, and Bliss or Ivory Wave&#8230;they sound like a generic aromatherapy type of product; these packages are anything but.  It is un-believable that this product is allowed to be sold; knowing that lives are being ruined.  These legal substitutes are chemical stimulants designed to achieve a physical/psychological high and are extremely deadly.  They have strong stimulants inside the packages which closely copy the effects on the body like speed or ephedra.</p>
<p>The problem is that these legal substitutes are not something that the DEA regulates.  However, the damage these drugs do is causes dangerous reactions that often produce paranoia, violence and psychological terror that can not only endanger the user (who willingly takes that chance); but also affects anyone who is unfortunate enough to run into someone under the influence of such an un-predictable drug.</p>
<p>Some people abusing these bath salts, have described seeing visions of, aliens, devils or demons and attacking themselves or others because of those visions.  If you see this stuff being sold&#8230;report it to the authorities.  If you know someone using these products get them help immediately; report it to a poison control center and get them in to see medical personnel right away before they harm themselves or someone else.  Schools should be prepared for the influence of these products as well by having drug counselors on speed dial.  Educating individuals who are susceptible to the influence of using drugs to escape reality is going to be very important as this trend becomes more commonly known.   Becoming aware of this trend of abusing bath salts could help you spot the danger and help to save  lives.</p>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 13 Jan 2011 04:06:18 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rainy</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[When a person is down and out like Ted Williams was and living homeless on the streets it is easy to think money is the answer.  However, money doesn't fix everything.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>When someone doesn&#8217;t have enough money to meet their daily needs it is easy to think that putting their hands on a boatload of money would just fix just about everything wrong in their life.  Yet, if you look around and observe the world you start to see just how wrong that is because money doesn&#8217;t fix everything.</p>
<p>There are rich people with just as many problems as poor people.  In fact, often having too much money  is often more of a curse.   Some rich people try to hold on to as much of it as they can and don&#8217;t pay their rightful taxes on it; going to prison over that concept.   Look at people who struggle with an over-abundance and you will see what I am talking about.   Think about some of those music or movie stars that you see them plastered all over the tabloid papers strung out on drugs or alcohol; hanging with the wrong crowd and getting into legal troubles.  Some are homeless or about to be due to financial mismanagement.  Family secrets come out and many times, it is because someone feels slighted at not being &#8220;given&#8221; enough from that person.  Friends and acquaintances sell stories about them to the media&#8230;loyalty and true friendship are tested because of the temptation to &#8220;sell them out&#8221; for money.  <span id="more-2869"></span></p>
<p>It isn&#8217;t unheard of to read about a wealthy family who is going head- to- head over who is getting what, when one of their own passes away and doesn&#8217;t handle distributing that wealth evenly to their family, friends, or their caregivers.  Even someone who has money and passes away can be sued (at least their estate can).  Sad isn&#8217;t it?</p>
<p>People who live on the street and are homeless are often without the basics in life because of a lack of money.  In fact, Ted Williams made the news recently as a homeless person who was recorded, on tape, by a reporter carrying a sign proclaiming his God given voice in the hopes of getting a job doing voice overs or radio work because of his talent.</p>
<p>It worked&#8230;in a matter of days he was carried along on a media whirlwind that took him from coast to coast in the United States doing interviews&#8230;receiving jobs offers and offers of a place to live.  He did heartfelt interviews talking about his past addictions (2 yrs of sobriety he claimed) and run ins with the law.  He was on a high of emotion from the sudden shift in his luck and station in life&#8230;given a second chance to turn things around.  I am sure in the back of his mind when he was  sleeping alongside the highway in a tent&#8230;he probably thought; if only I could get my hands on some money everything will be alright!  Many people would probably think that.</p>
<p>The truth of the matter is that he was still drinking.  He was still in denial.  He had a meeting with his mama, who he hadn&#8217;t seen in years, where she told him basically not to let her down this time.  She had prayed for him to turn his life around and to be safe.  To me that spoke of the hurting  journey of a parent (or loved one) to a person who has struggled with long term addictions.  This proved to be true.  The media started to say how hard it was going to be for him to suddenly be financially better off and not be tempted to go back to his old ways.</p>
<p>Now news reports say that Dr. Phil has done a series of three interviews with Ted and his family members out of concern about his sobriety and his addictions.  One of Ted&#8217;s 9 children allegedly got into some kind of confrontation in a hotel in California  where the police were called.  Since this time, Ted Williams has allegedly agreed to go into rehab after confessing that he has been drinking still.</p>
<p>Before this,  it was touted that all of Ted&#8217;s struggles were over because of  his sudden good luck.  The offers of money, jobs, and media attention seemed like a miracle opportunity for him.  It still could be;  if he does what Dr. Phil and his family truly want and need him to do which is to deal with the reasons behind his addictions and commit himself to recovery.  His relationships can be improved upon&#8230; possibly even healed from years of hurt and disappointments.  His opportunities will still be there for him to pursue when he is rooted in a real recovery.  You see, money doesn&#8217;t fix everything&#8230;it can be a tool to turn his world upside right again, or it can be the tool that destroys him.</p>
<p>So many of us wanted to buy into the story of a lucky Ted Williams who needed an opportunity and a little money and it would be a great story of overcoming difficult circumstances.  We wanted to see him do good.  We still do.  Now we want it more, knowing that he needs more than dollars and a place to live.  He needs help, he needs support, he needs professional intervention to help him regain control of the things in life that have held him back and away from those in his life who want him to be there in their lives healthy and whole again.  It is possible, and maybe just maybe with that help, the power of prayer and the love and support of those who care about him he will stand a fighting chance.</p>
<p>If you see someone who needs help getting back on their feet&#8230;don&#8217;t be so quick to just hand over money.  Think about what their circumstances really need to be turned around.  Find a way to help that isn&#8217;t a quick fix.  What are some ways to help a person in the same kind of situation as Ted Williams?</p>
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		<title>Homeless Not Hopeless-Ted Williams</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 06 Jan 2011 19:22:44 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rainy</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Ted Williams featured on a viral video was homeless not helpless.  There are others like him in the same situation; how can people help those who are homeless?]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The media is bombarding us with a feel good story about a man by the name of Ted Williams.  He has allegedly been homeless for quite some time as he struggled with drug and alcohol addictions, as well as legal problems.  That is not all that unusual when you stop and consider the large number of people living on the streets and learn about their individual stories.  Often you will find that there is a dependency on either drugs or alcohol, or even possibly a mental illness that often goes untreated.  Some people ASSUME that homelessness is a choice for those who don&#8217;t want to work or who are just trying to escape from life.  However, that is not fair nor is it accurate.  People become homeless for a variety of reasons.</p>
<p>With the economic disasters of the last decade, there are more people out on the street because they have been uprooted by a sudden change in their finances.  Military veterans often struggle with a return to civilian life and end up homeless.   Runaways also can end up homeless after they have run through the willingness of their friends and family to allow them to couch surf for a period of time.  Sometimes a runaway situation is by choice and sometimes it is out of a need for survival that they leave home.   Again, people become homeless for a variety of reasons; and, it doesn&#8217;t have to be a permanent situation.  People living on the street can also become a victim of violence, crime, or intimidation.   Homelessness can be a reaction to a temporary situation in a person&#8217;s life.   It does not have to mean a hopeless situation.</p>
<p>Ted Williams says that for the better part of 15 years he was homeless and living on the streets because of his addictions.  Turning his life around and getting sober allowed him to have  a dream.   Growing up he had a desire to get into broadcasting for a career.  The addictions took him on another path.  Recently, he stood along the roadway with a handwritten sign proclaiming that he had a God given voice.  A video was made of him by a reporter as he panhandled alongside the road; that video of him using his God given voice went viral.  Since that time, he has had a whirlwind couple of days with job offers inundating him.  He has the potential of seeing his aging mother who lives in Brooklyn, New York while he is doing all of these interviews with the major news networks.  This opportunity to reconnect mother and son is an answer to both of their prayers.  They both have said that they prayed to see him doing well again in life before she passed away. Their faith was rewarded by this reaction to the viral video.</p>
<p>I am sure that there are families all around the country with that same desire; to see their sons/daughters/fathers/mothers restored to a good place in life.  This feel good story of Ted Williams could be true for many more people who are homeless.  Ted has had an offer to work for the Cleveland Cavaliers and have a home again.  How many other people that are presently homeless have hopes and dreams that could come true if someone took notice of them on the street and didn&#8217;t dismiss them as hopeless?  it would be great if all of these opportunities being offered to Ted could be spread around to help others in the same situation.</p>
<p>Don&#8217;t get me wrong&#8230;I love this story about Ted Williams.  I am happy for him and his family.  I just can&#8217;t help thinking about the countless others who are still stuck on the street; caught up in drugs, alcohol, prostitution/human trafficking, or in an emotional/physical prison.   Illegal activities often become a way of life when there is no steady income from a job.   We need to focus some solutions to the problem on helping people to turn their lives around and become happy, healthy and productive individuals again.  Look at what a little positive attention has done for Ted Williams and imagine the same effect on those that you pass on the street in the same predicament any other day of the week.   How can you help?  Donate time, food, blankets, money or your skills to those who work with the homeless.  Employ them or help to educate someone; direct them to a safe shelter or to a counseling program which may be able to help them get back on their feet.  Try to shed a little light into the dark corners of the world where people don&#8217;t often feel worthy of a better life!</p>
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		<title>Mega Millions Lottery Jackpot Fever</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 04 Jan 2011 16:27:06 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rainy</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[The Mega Million Lottery Jackpot Fever reaches a high pitch.  Tempting though it is, I am not buying a ticket...I could win or something traumatic like that!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong> Surely you&#8217;ve heard about the Mega Millions Lottery Jackpot in the news.  Everyone in the media is going gaga over the $330 million jackpot winnings.  People are dreaming big.  Oh there is speculation on the lips of those that are interviewed about what they WILL do with their winnings (they haven&#8217;t even bought a ticket yet) and they are fantasizing about how THEIR money will be spent and how they will choose to collect it; either in a lump sum or, through long term annuity payments. </strong></p>
<p><strong>Players are standing in long lines to purchase their tickets.  Even the &#8220;odds of winning&#8221; aren&#8217;t a deterrent to the most loyal of players&#8230;the 1 in 176 millionth of a chance of winning.  Really?  I wonder how someone convinces themselves that THEY are the one who WILL win the jackpot with those kind of odds.  It really is gambling to spend money in the HOPES of taking the jackpot.</strong></p>
<p><strong> Although, there are those who spend serious money to try to even up the odds of winning to their benefit; by purchasing more than one ticket.  Still, when you stop and think about it&#8230;doesn&#8217;t it really mean when they lose that they will just take a harder hit than the person to spends the bare minimum to purchase one chance to win? </strong></p>
<p><strong> I don&#8217;t play the lottery.  First of all, people with my kind of luck just don&#8217;t win these things.  Second of all, you hear about some of the winners of these huge lotteries who turn around and say, within a short period of time, I wish that I would have just torn up that ticket at the very beginning.   That is not a high recommendation for praying for &#8220;good luck&#8221; when playing the lottery. </strong></p>
<p><strong> Those people have either lost their winnings, had the funds mis-managed, or been hit up with one kind of disaster after another, once they did win.  Not to mention, because of winning the lottery; they were subjected to people coming out of the woodwork trying to get a portion of the money; thereby jeopardizing their relationships with many of the people in their lives and their communities.  One of the winners I remember reading about lost a granddaughter to death, was sued by multiple people; and, seemed to have gained more problems than anyone would ever think possible.   Often criminal, emotional, marital, or legal problems persist for winners of lotteries.   Others become addicted to gambling or other high risk behaviors.  For those who believe that winning will solve all of their problems in life; disappointment and disillusionment become a way of life.<br />
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<p><strong> Those issues are not an endorsement for wanting to win, right?<br />
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<p><strong> Winners are often told that 25% of the winnings go to the federal government.  Forty one states are in on this particular jackpot&#8230;and of course, the states will have their own taxes that must be deducted from the winner&#8217;s take.  It is highly recommended for people who are not already well blessed with finances and well versed in the world of high finance to seek out and (pay for) financial counselors, lawyers, accountants and investment bankers to advise them.  (There would go another substantial amount of the winnings).   I&#8217;ve always been taught that gambling is wrong&#8230;sinful, leads to all kinds of trouble. </strong></p>
<p><strong> It would be just my bad luck; if I violated what I&#8217;ve always been taught&#8230;I would WIN and suffer unbearably!   <img src='http://www.writewhereyouareblog.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /><br />
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<p><strong> Those are all reasons why I am not buying a ticket.  Even though it is tempting to think that all of a person&#8217;s financial problems could be wiped away in one moment&#8230;I won&#8217;t buy a ticket.  I mean, geez; if you won that kind of money, you would always be worrying about losing it somehow.  If you&#8217;ve never had it, you don&#8217;t have to worry about losing it, right?   &gt; So, it&#8217;s official; I&#8217;ve decided that no way am I going to risk winning the Mega Millions Lottery Jackpot this evening.  LoL   How about you, are you going to risk it?<br />
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		<title>Parents-Do Your Kids Have Healthy Levels of Energy?</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 17 May 2010 16:54:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Everyone needs energy; parents and kids included.  Do kids today have healthy levels of energy or are they supplimenting it with energy drinks? Is this healthy?]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>     This post may be offensive to some readers.  I prefer not to offend, but to educate the parent who may have purchased a product, without understanding the potential health complications for themselves, their teens, or preteens.  The products that I am talking about are called energy drinks &amp; anti-energy drinks.</strong></p>
<p><strong>       Everyone at one time or another has felt the need for more energy.  People everywhere will indulge in a cup of coffee, tea, soda pop, or candy bar to give their energy level an occasional boost.  There are better ways to gain energy such as proper diet, rest, and exercise; but, we are all guilty of taking short cuts, at one time or another.   </strong></p>
<p><strong>          Kids need energy just like adults; but, between poor role models and a sedentary lifestyle that many young people have grown accustomed to; they are even more easily persuaded to get their energy out of a can.  Many marketing images are over the top and come across as radical, or illegal with the names of the products; which can be enticing to a teen who is open to the idea of coming across as rebellious.   Some who are easily influenced are vulnerable to the idea of an easy fix for low energy reserves.   A whole new thriving industry has emerged centered around these energy drinks, and their counter parts; anti-energy drinks, for those times when too much energy is a problem&gt;insert sarcasm here!  </strong></p>
<p><strong>         There are several problems that I see when it comes to marketing these products to teens and children.  Adults should take care to monitor their own use of such products; because your kids will pattern their behavior after the adults in their lives.  The problem is, that kids don&#8217;t always have the maturity, or the knowledge, that they need to make wise choices in this area of life.  Creative advertising for these energy drink products has made these products sound not only benign; but, good for you.</strong></p>
<p><strong>          However, not all of these products have the same ingredients as one of their competitors products; nor do they have the same effects, on every person&#8217;s body.</strong>   <strong>There are some good products out there and some not so good products. </strong>  <strong>The idea behind energy drinks is to increase the energy level of the consumer.  This is done through a variety of ingredients; the main ones being caffeine and some form of sugar.  The levels of those two main ingredients varies from brand to brand&#8230;and, it is important to read the labels and compare the results.   You can&#8217;t assume that just because they are on the market for purchase that they are all safe to use for every person; because that may not be the case.</strong></p>
<p><strong>        The much sought after goal of gaining more energy is underscored by many consumers who believe that higher levels of caffeine is good.  In fact, it can be rather harmful.  Adding too much caffeine to a person&#8217;s body can raise blood pressure levels, put stress on the heart and it&#8217;s ability to regulate it&#8217;s rhythm; as well as other organs.  They can cause headaches and nausea.  The long term effects of this roller coaster ride can be very harmful to the body.  </strong></p>
<p><strong>        There is a huge dependence on these energy drinks in the daily diet, by many teens and preteens.  Parents may or may not be aware of their child&#8217;s use of these drinks.  It is critical that parents are made aware of the physical, social, and even the mood- altering impact, on their children, of the energy drinks; and, even the so called anti-energy drinks.  Side effects from some of the ingredients can be made worse if there are extra strains on the body such as extreme physical exertion from participating in a sport or an underlying health complication.</strong></p>
<p><strong>          Many young people are taking prescription medications for various conditions such as ADHD, ADD, Fetal Alcohol Spectrum Disorders, Autism, Depression and many other chronic medical conditions.  Mixing these drinks and the ingredients they contain with legal, and or illegal substances can harm, or even cause death for some individuals with underlying health conditions. </strong></p>
<p><strong>          Only a doctor or pharmacist can determine whether any specific individual can safely consume these products along with the medications they are taking.  However, I don&#8217;t think that message gets communicated properly to the consumer.  Talk to your family doctor; discuss the issue with your kid&#8217;</strong><strong>s school nurse and make sure that they are aware of  the effects of energy drinks on the health of minor&#8217;s bodies which are growing and changing at a rapid rate.</strong></p>
<p><strong>          Advertising for many of these drinks can appear to promote health because one or two of their ingredients may have positive health benefits like vitamins, minerals, or herbs.  Again, some of those ingredients can be harmful&#8230;some herbs can have stimulant or depressant properties.    Wisdom demands that you be aware of mixing any kind of substance that has the power to affect how the body operates or functions.  Care must be taken because you could be, in effect&#8230;mixing medications by drinking these drinks along with taking legal, prescription medications.   The average person or teen may not be aware that drinking  these drinks can cause a harmful interaction.</strong></p>
<p><strong>           The availability of these drinks is as easy as the nearest vending machine, convience store/gas station or grocery store.  They can be a bit pricey, generally around $3.00 a piece.   The products often appear as a can of soda in an aluminum container&#8230;sometimes they are bottled in glass.  Do you know if your child has had access to these drinks today?  <span id="more-2736"></span></strong></p>
<p><strong>            Adults use these products as well.  However, if you are going to purchase these drinks for your teen or preteen; or, allow them to be used by your children; at least teach them to read the labels.  Teach them to understand that the numbers are often doctored by dividing the calories, sugar levels, caffiene numbers according to servings; not by listing the total amounts in the can.  The consumer has to understand that there may be MORE than one serving per can.  This makes all the difference in how the person&#8217;s body handles the drink; consuming a serving or the whole container in one sitting can be the difference between a positive or a negative after effect.</strong></p>
<p><strong>         Whether the consumer is an adult, or teen, or pre-teen; it is a good idea to communicate that too much caffeine (whether it be in coffee, tea, soda, hot chocolate energy drinks) can dehydrate the body and damage the kidneys, heart, or other organs.   Encourage them to drink plain old water to re-hydrate the body when they drink these kinds of energy or anti-energy drinks.</strong></p>
<p><strong>           As a side note, please be aware that some of the anti- energy drinks can have just as damaging effects on the body.  They are just like they sound&#8230;.the opposite of energy drinks.  They have substances such as herbs and hormones in them that produce a slowing down of energy levels.  Some of them even add melatonin, a hormone that is naturally produced in the brain to promote sleep.   However, when this hormone is added into these anti-energy drinks it is not being naturally produced.  How much is too much for your or your loved one?</strong></p>
<p><strong>          Some users of these anti-energy drinks are using them to self -medicate either physical or emotional conditions.  If a person struggles with mental illness, depression or any other type of mood disorder&#8230;could these drinks cause them to experience mood swings of a harmful nature?  It would makes sense to me that it could.    There are also conflicting reports on the internet about these drinks ability to produce a positive result on drug tests.   For those individuals who are on probation or under a courts jurisdiction, this could impact them legally as well, if it is true that the drinks can affect a drug tests results.  </strong></p>
<p><strong>          I have even read that there are people who combine these drinks with alcohol.  Whenever people start using substances to alter their physical or emotional state of being you have to be careful.  These can become not only physically; but, psychologically addicting.  Teens who are wanting to &#8220;escape&#8221; painful emotional or physical situations can find themselves on a roller coaster of dependence&#8230;affecting not only their health; but, their relationships with their parents and their peers.  If they already struggle with addictive behaviors or choices&#8230;using these drinks to self-medicate can cause additional problems.</strong></p>
<p><strong>       Parents, many of you will not even be aware of this culture with your teens or their circle of influence&#8230;but, teens using these drinks is common.  If you purchase these energy drinks, or anti-energy drinks for your home&#8230;at least control how often these products are used.  But also be aware, they may be consuming them when you are not around to monitor their actions. </strong></p>
<p><strong>        In my opinion, it is better to prohibit the use of these drinks altogether.  I don&#8217;t see the potential benefits outweighing the risks, to the health and well-being of the person drinking them.   However, if you are going to allow it&#8230;at least educate yourself about your child&#8217;s views on these drinks and how they and their friends see these products in their daily lives.  You may be shocked at what you hear.  Many young people see them as non-harmful; and use them as commonly as they drink soda pop.  Do some research for yourself.  What are your thoughts on this subject?</strong></p>
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		<title>Heros-What Are They Made Of</title>
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		<dc:creator>Rainy</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Heros come in many shapes and sizes; they do inspiring things such as protect,serve,educate,create an awareness &#038; should be acknowledged so that they can be an example.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>     I have been thinking alot about the word heros.  I know that probably sounds a bit odd but there is good reason for my thoughts.  Part of my reason for thinking on the concept of heros is because my husband and I work with the young children of our church and we are spending a month studying on &#8220;Super Heros&#8221;.  Most of us have grown up with cartoon super heros who showed us super hero powers such as flying, or leaping over buildings, climbing up walls with spider webs coming from their hands, super strength and a whole variety of other special skills.</strong></p>
<p><strong>         It got me to wondering what it is about heros that attracts us to them; what are they made of.   Why do heros do the things that they do?  Most of the time heros are fighting for justice, in other words fighting against the bad guys/gals, trying to protect other everyday non-heros from harm.  I think as we grow up, our understanding of what a hero is changes a bit.  I think we are attracted to the goodness in a hero or their ability to protect and to serve.  It is admirable and desirable to be capable of doing the right thing, for the right reason.</strong></p>
<p><strong>          In my mind, a hero is someone who does something unexpected in a challenging way that helps/protects/inspires/encourages another person who is not in a position to do it for themselves at the time.   A hero is someone who makes a split second decision to reach out and make a difference even if the cost is high-such as a stranger who rushes to protect another person from a crime, a threat, a bad decision, or a moment of danger. <span id="more-2649"></span></strong></p>
<p><strong>           Sometimes a hero is a person who is &#8220;just doing their job&#8221; in their own words; but to another ordinary person their commitment to the deed is extra-ordinary because of the level of commitment to performing the deed comes with high risk or a high cost to the person choosing to take action.  A police officer, a fireman/woman, a postal worker, a teacher, a store clerk, military men and women&#8230;the list goes on and on; these people are heros in my book.  </strong></p>
<p><strong>           What about the volunteer or caregiver who takes extra measure to seek a solution to another person in need?  Are they a hero?   What about people who put themselves out on the front line to fight for what they believe in even when it is not popular; are they heros?  I believe that they are.</strong></p>
<p><strong>            I think about those people who fight for the poor, aged, disabled, ill, those who wage a war against cancer, domestic violence, drug &amp; alcohol addictions, human trafficking, homelessness, abortion, abuse/neglect, children without families or without basic needs being met.  The people who champion for an awareness or for changes to existing circumstances just because it is the right thing to do&#8230;I believe these people are heros.  They are an inspiration!</strong></p>
<p><strong>           Miep Gies died yesterday at age 100.  She was a hero but she didn&#8217;t like to think of herself that way.  She was an office worker in the employ of Anne Frank&#8217;s father Otto Frank; she hid Anne Frank and her family and friends in a secret room in a warehouse during the years that Hitler was rounding up Jews to kill them, during the Holocaust.  She is the woman who bicycled around the city finding food to feed them, and who eventually found the pages of Anne Frank&#8217;s diary when they were arrested.  She risked her own life to do what was the right thing to do to protect other human beings in extra-ordinary difficult circumstances.</strong></p>
<p><strong>             There are so many different kinds of heros in our every day lives if only we stop to think about it.  I think the act of a hero is a call from God to step outside of ourselves to be the hands and feet of Jesus&#8230;to be the best person that we can be.</strong></p>
<p><strong>           Do you know someone like this?  Write me a comment and give them a little plug.  Most heros are unsung heros because they don&#8217;t believe that they deserve attention for doing what they consider the right thing to do.  And, maybe in one sense they don&#8217;t&#8230;because we should all be doing these things&#8230;but the truth of the matter is, that without examples how will others learn to be heros in their own right?  We must hold up examples of special people who do acts of heroism&#8230;because in doing that we are encouraging more of that kind of behavior.  </strong></p>
<p><strong>So is there a hero that you know of doing something wonderful?   What is your hero made of&#8230;tell us all about them.  Please comment here and let us know about this person and what they are doing to make the world a better place!  Thanks for being a light!</strong></p>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 06 Aug 2009 16:01:39 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rainy</dc:creator>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>         Hey, for those who have not heard&#8230;Twitter is being attacked once again.  Today on several occasions, Twitter was unavailable to its users.   This morning there were many attempts, by yours truly to access my account only to be denied.  When i checked on the status of Twitter, their site said that they were under attack and were defending themselves from a denial-of-service-attack.  If you ever have problems with Twitter and need to check on the status of their service&#8230;here is where you go: <a href="http://status.twitter.com/">http://status.twitter.com/</a> .  </p>
<p>         For those who are addicted to Twitter either for communication, for social media purposes or for business connections these outages are frustrating.  The online traffic is mindboggling and temporary outages due to high traffic times are expected&#8230;but when the site is actually under attack&#8230;that is different.  People get nervous about their private information being taken.  Those who monitor such things have to really step up their defenses&#8230;and, there should be high consequences legally for those who are found to be behind such criminal behavior.</p>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 28 Jun 2009 20:40:26 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rainy</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[When celebrities die, why do their friends and family feel the need to share personal information and secrets with the public?]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>         It has been an eye opening week with several well known people&#8217;s death.  First there was Ed McMahon, Farrah Fawcett, Michael Jackson; and today, it was announced that televisions pitch/ad-man Billy Mays has passed away.  With all of the media television programs, old interviews re-broadcast and such&#8230;there is a strong demand for information; but, I wondered, why do so called friends and family speak out about private information after that person passes?</p>
<p>         Out of those deaths that were mention in the previous paragraph&#8230;one stands out for excess information coming forward.  Michael Jackson&#8217;s death had almost an immediate response of speculation about the reason for his death; immediately, close personal friends and not so close friends and family were speaking out about their concerns about his alleged drug addictions&#8230;.his private financial difficulties , personal relationships, and other issues.</p>
<p>          We&#8217;ve all seen it before&#8230;this won&#8217;t be the last of it.   It seems that the larger the celebrity the more that people cant wait to tell their secrets.  Soon there will be a sad and shocking selling of memorabilia.   There will be more disclosures as time goes on&#8230;some of it will be shocking I am sure.  What do you think makes these confidantes speak out with information, that otherwise the public would not be privy to?</p>
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