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		<title>Do Animals Have A Compassionate Nature?</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 19 May 2011 17:53:25 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rainy</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Animals are a blessing &#038; it's amazing how much joy they bring to life.  I wondered how much compassion animals have after viewing this baby elephant rescue video.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>If you watch the news regularly you probably wonder whether human beings are loosing their compassionate human nature.  In general, I like to believe that most people at their very core are loving, compassionate and nurturing; when they see someone in trouble they will reach out and help them to the best of their ability.</strong></p>
<p><strong>While that statement isn&#8217;t always true about every person&#8230;I believe that is the way that God created us.  Since he created animals too and they give so many of us a daily dose of joy and a lift to our spirits I have often wondered if God gave them a bit of the same compassionate nature that he gave to us humans. </strong></p>
<p><strong>Often you will hear stories of an animal that comforted or rescued someone who was hurt, lost, in danger, or suffering with a disease or illness.  I really enjoy hearing those stories.  Sometimes you will see animals do some amazing things; that&#8217;s why when I watched this video, which I first saw on the news, I had to post it here.  Then I went to Youtube to get the link.  The situation that unfolds, in the video, is that a group of elephants are drinking at the waters edge and a young one falls into the water.  The compassion and teamwork that the adult elephants put to use is very inspiring to me.  I hope you enjoy this <a title="elephant video rescue" href="http://youtu.be/5O-BFMcwiY8" target="_blank">elephant video rescue</a> . </strong></p>
<p><strong>I love how the adult elephants size up the situation, are compassionate towards the young one who was in danger; and, use teamwork to rescue the baby elephant.  It just proves to me that animals are smart and have big hearts towards one another&#8230;I think that is amazing. God designed every part of our world in an impressive and fascinating way.  Compassionate behavior should be encouraged in both the human world and in the animal kingdom.  How can we be more compassionate and encouraging in our lives?  Leave your thoughts after watching the video to let me know you visited, if you please.<br />
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		<title>Bath Salts Use And Abuse</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 07 Feb 2011 16:38:41 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rainy</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Bath salts are being used and abused for a drug induced "high".  This is not illegal but it is a very dangerous trend that many parents,police &#038; medical personnel are just becoming aware of.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It is sad but true, bath salts have a genuine use for the body interested in health and wellness; but, bath salts are now being misused as a drug to achieve some sort of a high.  Bath salts are generally used as a body soak and exfoliant.  When used in this way, true bath salts (typically epsom salts mixed with fragrance beads and water softening agents) are a balm to achy muscles and dry skin. These are not dangerous!</p>
<p>However, there are products being labeled as &#8220;bath salts&#8221; that are powders packed in small tea bag sized envelopes and advertised as legal substitutions; merely to make money.  They are  being sold on the shelves of convience stores, truck stops and head shops all around the country; as well as online.  They are marketed as bath salts, when those who produce these products know full well that they are not being used for that purpose.</p>
<p>Those who produce, market or sell these items should be held accountable for those who have had their lives destroyed by their products. Their intended use is for individuals who are looking for a drug induced high.  Business selling them should be forced to removed them from their stores in my opinion.  In fact, some states &amp; communities are banning their sales&#8230;but, we need to increase awareness of this issue; before the use of these products becomes more widespread. <span id="more-2894"></span></p>
<p>The powders are snorted, smoked or injected.  This product is equal in intensity to meth in it&#8217;s effects on the human body and mind.  It can be addictive even when the user experiences terrible effects during usage.  Some people have committed murder, attempted suicide or just gone on a violent, destructive bender while using these products.  Emergency rooms, police and poison control centers are seeing an increase in calls in areas where these products are being sold.</p>
<p>Children and adults can purchase a package of &#8220;bath salts&#8221; for approximately $20 or so.  Unfortunately these things can be purchased online too.  A parent seeing one of these packages may not realize that it is a drug with very harmful effects.  These products have names like Cosmic blast, Vanilla Sky, Red Dove, White Lightning, Hurricane Charlie, and Bliss or Ivory Wave&#8230;they sound like a generic aromatherapy type of product; these packages are anything but.  It is un-believable that this product is allowed to be sold; knowing that lives are being ruined.  These legal substitutes are chemical stimulants designed to achieve a physical/psychological high and are extremely deadly.  They have strong stimulants inside the packages which closely copy the effects on the body like speed or ephedra.</p>
<p>The problem is that these legal substitutes are not something that the DEA regulates.  However, the damage these drugs do is causes dangerous reactions that often produce paranoia, violence and psychological terror that can not only endanger the user (who willingly takes that chance); but also affects anyone who is unfortunate enough to run into someone under the influence of such an un-predictable drug.</p>
<p>Some people abusing these bath salts, have described seeing visions of, aliens, devils or demons and attacking themselves or others because of those visions.  If you see this stuff being sold&#8230;report it to the authorities.  If you know someone using these products get them help immediately; report it to a poison control center and get them in to see medical personnel right away before they harm themselves or someone else.  Schools should be prepared for the influence of these products as well by having drug counselors on speed dial.  Educating individuals who are susceptible to the influence of using drugs to escape reality is going to be very important as this trend becomes more commonly known.   Becoming aware of this trend of abusing bath salts could help you spot the danger and help to save  lives.</p>
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		<title>Belding Clock Tower Is In Danger &#8211; Trying To Turn Back The Hands Of Time</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 09 Nov 2010 19:07:59 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rainy</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[The historic Belding Clock Tower is in danger of being torn down by the Electrolux company.  There is an effort to gain support to sustain the clock tower &#038; part of the historic silk mill.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong> <a href="http://www.writewhereyouareblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/11/Brandons-pictures-wordworking-Belding-079.jpg"><img class="alignnone size-medium wp-image-2832" title="SANYO DIGITAL CAMERA" src="http://www.writewhereyouareblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/11/Brandons-pictures-wordworking-Belding-079-e1289332969186-225x300.jpg" alt="" width="225" height="300" /></a>For the town in Michigan known as Belding, saving time is critical for their self image.  You see, Belding, Michigan got its very name by honoring the Belding family; they built a business with their silk mills and thereby, provided a way of life for those who chose to live along the banks of the river.  These days, there is not much use for the structures except for its very image; which many use in their letterheads or in their desire for buying or selling collectibles.  This historic structure needs some upkeep done soon to preserve not only it&#8217;s history; but, to carry it into the next generation. </strong></p>
<p><strong>Many people are unaware that Electrolux recently repurchased the existing buildings with the intention of tearing down the remaining silk mill buildings, as well as the clock tower.  This is heartbreaking for those past and present residents of Belding.  Removing the buildings would not only change the face of the small town; but, it would create a hole in the patchwork of historical buildings of the area and diminish the importance of the contribution that the Belding brothers brought to the area.  The brothers created a rich legacy through their silk mill operation and through their contributions to the town known as Belding today.<br />
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<p><strong> How does one go about determining the value of preserving history and its impact on the future?  I mean, think about it&#8230;everyone values these things differently.  However, when there is a rising up of a collective outcry from not only residents of the community but those in surrounding areas; one would think that some kind of effort could be made by a corporation as large and industrious as Electrolux.  They are a corporation that prides itself on sustainability. </strong></p>
<p><strong> My online dictionary says this about sustainability: </strong></p>
<div>1.</p>
<div>to support, hold, or bear up from below; bear the weight of, as a structure.</div>
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<div>2.</p>
<div>to bear (a burden, charge, etc.)</div>
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<div>to undergo, experience, or suffer (injury, loss, etc.); endure without giving way or yielding.</div>
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<div>to keep (a person, the mind, the spirits, etc.) from giving way, as under trial or affliction.</div>
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<div>to keep up or keep going, as an action or process: to sustain a conversation.</div>
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<div>6.</p>
<div>to supply with food, drink, and other necessities of life.</div>
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<div>7.</p>
<div>to provide for (an institution or the like) by furnishing means or funds.</div>
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<div>8.</p>
<div>to support (a cause or the like) by aid or approval.<span id="more-2828"></span></div>
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<div><strong>Is this not the rallying cry of those who wish to SUSTAIN the Belding Clock Tower and possibly restore part of the silk mill?  This is the statement I found on an Electrolux site that discusses their view on sustainability: </strong>We can make a positive contribution to sustainable development both  through our operations and our products. We are continually working to  reduce energy consumption from products and emissions from factories;  working to ensure that our employees and business partners are treated  fairly; and striving to be a good neighbour in the communities in which  we operate.  <strong>This is where I found that information: </strong>http://group.electrolux.com/en/category/sustainability/ .<strong> I believe that Electrolux can be instrumental in finding a way to sustain the Belding Clock Tower and possibly a portion of the silk mill.</strong></div>
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<div><strong> My family recently made a trip to the Belrockton museum in Belding, which coincidently also used to house female workers from the silk mills.  This &#8220;dormitory&#8221; housed approximately 100 workers&#8230;2 women to a bed, approximately 40 women to a floor in this 3 story building.  Believe it or not, this dormitory had the latest plumbing; two indoor toilets, two showers and two sinks on each floor for those 40 women.  It wasn&#8217;t long, I am sure, before they discovered that this was not sufficient for the number of women residents.   There&#8217;s much history, not only on the silk mills and the clock tower; but also on area businesses, people and intriguing trivia on the society of Belding.</strong></div>
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<div><strong> We were blessed to visit the museum on a clear fall day and we could view the Belding clock tower from the 3rd floor.  A wonderful hostess named, Janet H., was full of helpful information. She shared with us knowledge about how the building has been used over the years.  It housed all those young women and a matron, who stood watch over her charges. </strong></div>
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<div><strong> During the Great Depression, the building housed young people who were employed through the National Youth Administration, part of the New Deal.   The building was and is beautiful.  I could well imagine the people who built their lives around the silk mill and set their lives in motion to the ticking/chiming from the clock tower.  There was a boardwalk across from the Belrockton which is where many of the young women who lived there were courted by their beaus.  I looked through out the doors made by fine craftsman onto porches and verandas; which bespoke of a golden era, where ladies were treated like ladies and men had to come to call on them in the parlor under the watchful eyes of their chaperons.  Life was simpler then, in many ways, but still&#8230;time had great meaning and the clock tower held great significance in the daily lives of those in Belding.</strong></div>
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<div><strong> The importance of the clock tower is no less today.  Its hands may need the skill of a clock maintenance person and the brick may need some skilled workers to restore it to its prime&#8230;but, the people who live there today need it no less now, then they did then.  To keep time, to provide a backdrop to their daily lives&#8230;to carry into the future, generations of people who know the value of hard work, ingenuity, productivity; and to pass along knowledge that is handed down and preserved for the good of those who are to come along in the years to come.  Please join in spreading the awareness of the goal of saving time by pushing for the restoration of the Belding clock tower.  It isn&#8217;t just about turning back the hands of time to honor the past; but, to also draw a line in the sand in allowing the precious assets, that the Belding community has, to deteriorate past the point of restoration. </strong></div>
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<div><strong> I can&#8217;t help but think of some of the projects that Extreme Home Makeover program has taken on.  They have the knowledge, the collective forces that seem to jump start building projects that benefit communities.  Why couldn&#8217;t someone approach them about looking into this project?  Electrolux has expressed a willingness, in interviews, to listen to the ideas of community members.</strong></div>
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<div><strong> I am all for that, as I believe that</strong><strong> sustainability also means gathering up those things that have value and shoring them up in a way that allows them to continue being something of valuable to a community; to not allow the buildings to become refuse for the landfill, to provide a guiding light to those who wish to connect the solid foundation of the past to the cutting edge of future growth and independence for those willing to invest time, money, energy and awareness.</strong></div>
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<div><strong> Here is a link to a video my friend Harvey Poling did regarding what the Silk Mill Clock Tower in Belding could look like once it is restored: </strong><span><a title="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6OaGyjOnT7A CTRL + Click to follow link" href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6OaGyjOnT7A" target="_blank">http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6OaGyjOnT7A</a> .   <strong>Please join those who care by checking out the awareness that concerned citizens are trying to share on Facebook here: </strong></span>http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100000545188161#!/pages/Save-Beldings-Clock-Tower/128424987210227?v=wall<span><strong> .  Who knows, by sharing this information, maybe community members, business owners, historical societies and architectural </strong></span><strong>afficionados</strong><span><strong> could find a way to come together, cut the red tape and make this happen in a way that benefits the most people. </strong><br />
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		<pubDate>Fri, 11 Jun 2010 18:39:48 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rainy</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Summer is here and discovering pool safety precautions may save lives in public pools or hot tubs.  Families traveling or on vacation may not realize the danger pool drains possess.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>         Ok, I am just going to say it&#8230;Just because it hasn&#8217;t happened to you or one of your loved ones doesn&#8217;t mean that it can&#8217;t or won&#8217;t happen.  Summer is here and school is out.  A big part of summer fun and relaxation is swimming in pools or dipping in hot tubs.  Parents everywhere think they have safety covered when they zip up or tie on a safety life jacket and have life rings available at the poolside.   They may even feel reassured if there is a fence around the pool and an alarm is activated when the volume or level of water changes; which would alert a parent to the presence of a person in the pool.  </p>
<p>          Those things are very important;  however, there are even more precautions to take to keep your kids safe in this environment.   Many people aren&#8217;t even aware of this particular danger that we are going to discuss today.   The danger I am talking about is the vacuum or suction that allows for the water in the pool, or hot tub to circulate.</p>
<p>         A child or even some adults are in danger because of the design of those drains, in some pools.   The power of these drains  can drastically alter or cause the loss of life.  Pools that aren&#8217;t up to date, or equipped, with various layers of protection, regarding the force of the suction in these drains, can kill or permanently harm human lives.  </p>
<p>         It is important to note that people on vacation may not be aware of the quality or level of protection that a hotel/campground/waterpark may or may not have.  It&#8217;s even possible for people to take for granted that the neighbor&#8217;s or grandma/grandpa&#8217;s pool is &#8220;safe&#8221; for their children&#8217;s use this summer. </p>
<p>        Using <span style="color: #ff0000;">large drain covers </span> that are considered to be blockage free; and, that are firmly attached with screws are the first step towards protecting lives.   Equally important to the issue of safety and well-being is to have back up systems that help to restrict, or reduce the amount of suction through these drains. </p>
<p>        There are safety shut off valves, that can save lives too; those safety shut off valves can sense when a drain becomes blocked and the force increases on the surface of the drain cover.    This powerful suction can occur when the skin of a person covers the drain and pulls with a large force trapping a person underwater; so a shut off valve is critical for saving lives.  <span id="more-2761"></span></p>
<p>        Precious time is often lost because people believe that they can just pull a small person off of the drain cover&#8230;but, it just isn&#8217;t so.   Even with adult men pulling on the victims, that have lost their lives, they could not be freed from the force of that suction and they drowned or had their intestines pulled from their bodies because of that force.   No one should die such a senseless death when it is possible to avoid such a tragedy.   It is a horrible situation that can be prevented if only all pools and hot tubs were equipped with these safety measures.</p>
<p>        Imagine the helplessness of those survivors of such incidents&#8230;watching an innocent swimmer suffer and needlessly die because they could not be freed from a pool or hot tub drain.  It is a vision that would be hard to live with.  There are safety advocates that are trying to enforce legislation to protect us all; if you would write to your representatives in Congress and express your desire for layers of safety measures to be implemented and enforced, all around the nation, it would help.</p>
<p>          Swimming is a great summer activity and there is no reason to avoid taking part in it as long as you are aware of  the risks and take appropriate precautions.  Check out those pools that you &#8220;visit&#8221;&#8230;make sure that they are equipped with large safe drain covers.   Don&#8217;t be afraid to ask question and don&#8217;t be willing to be pacified with answers that don&#8217;t address the issues of safety for your family.   See for yourself  if there is a shut off valve available that is quick to reach (we&#8217;ve been in hotels where those are behind a locked door). </p>
<p>          If a public pool does not appear to be safe; report it to authorities outside of the organization or facility where the pool/hot tub is housed; you could be saving lives.   Don&#8217;t take chances.  Teach children and teens to avoid the drain areas of pools and hot tubs or better yet; teach them not to get into an unknown pool without checking it&#8217;s safety features.  </p>
<p>           It doesn&#8217;t take a genius to realize that by the time a hotel employee could be located with a key&#8230;someone could drown before help could arrive.  Protect your loved ones by being safe&#8230;being aware, and sharing this information with those who may not know of this danger!</p>
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		<title>Parents-Do Your Kids Have Healthy Levels of Energy?</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 17 May 2010 16:54:49 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rainy</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Everyone needs energy; parents and kids included.  Do kids today have healthy levels of energy or are they supplimenting it with energy drinks? Is this healthy?]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>     This post may be offensive to some readers.  I prefer not to offend, but to educate the parent who may have purchased a product, without understanding the potential health complications for themselves, their teens, or preteens.  The products that I am talking about are called energy drinks &amp; anti-energy drinks.</strong></p>
<p><strong>       Everyone at one time or another has felt the need for more energy.  People everywhere will indulge in a cup of coffee, tea, soda pop, or candy bar to give their energy level an occasional boost.  There are better ways to gain energy such as proper diet, rest, and exercise; but, we are all guilty of taking short cuts, at one time or another.   </strong></p>
<p><strong>          Kids need energy just like adults; but, between poor role models and a sedentary lifestyle that many young people have grown accustomed to; they are even more easily persuaded to get their energy out of a can.  Many marketing images are over the top and come across as radical, or illegal with the names of the products; which can be enticing to a teen who is open to the idea of coming across as rebellious.   Some who are easily influenced are vulnerable to the idea of an easy fix for low energy reserves.   A whole new thriving industry has emerged centered around these energy drinks, and their counter parts; anti-energy drinks, for those times when too much energy is a problem&gt;insert sarcasm here!  </strong></p>
<p><strong>         There are several problems that I see when it comes to marketing these products to teens and children.  Adults should take care to monitor their own use of such products; because your kids will pattern their behavior after the adults in their lives.  The problem is, that kids don&#8217;t always have the maturity, or the knowledge, that they need to make wise choices in this area of life.  Creative advertising for these energy drink products has made these products sound not only benign; but, good for you.</strong></p>
<p><strong>          However, not all of these products have the same ingredients as one of their competitors products; nor do they have the same effects, on every person&#8217;s body.</strong>   <strong>There are some good products out there and some not so good products. </strong>  <strong>The idea behind energy drinks is to increase the energy level of the consumer.  This is done through a variety of ingredients; the main ones being caffeine and some form of sugar.  The levels of those two main ingredients varies from brand to brand&#8230;and, it is important to read the labels and compare the results.   You can&#8217;t assume that just because they are on the market for purchase that they are all safe to use for every person; because that may not be the case.</strong></p>
<p><strong>        The much sought after goal of gaining more energy is underscored by many consumers who believe that higher levels of caffeine is good.  In fact, it can be rather harmful.  Adding too much caffeine to a person&#8217;s body can raise blood pressure levels, put stress on the heart and it&#8217;s ability to regulate it&#8217;s rhythm; as well as other organs.  They can cause headaches and nausea.  The long term effects of this roller coaster ride can be very harmful to the body.  </strong></p>
<p><strong>        There is a huge dependence on these energy drinks in the daily diet, by many teens and preteens.  Parents may or may not be aware of their child&#8217;s use of these drinks.  It is critical that parents are made aware of the physical, social, and even the mood- altering impact, on their children, of the energy drinks; and, even the so called anti-energy drinks.  Side effects from some of the ingredients can be made worse if there are extra strains on the body such as extreme physical exertion from participating in a sport or an underlying health complication.</strong></p>
<p><strong>          Many young people are taking prescription medications for various conditions such as ADHD, ADD, Fetal Alcohol Spectrum Disorders, Autism, Depression and many other chronic medical conditions.  Mixing these drinks and the ingredients they contain with legal, and or illegal substances can harm, or even cause death for some individuals with underlying health conditions. </strong></p>
<p><strong>          Only a doctor or pharmacist can determine whether any specific individual can safely consume these products along with the medications they are taking.  However, I don&#8217;t think that message gets communicated properly to the consumer.  Talk to your family doctor; discuss the issue with your kid&#8217;</strong><strong>s school nurse and make sure that they are aware of  the effects of energy drinks on the health of minor&#8217;s bodies which are growing and changing at a rapid rate.</strong></p>
<p><strong>          Advertising for many of these drinks can appear to promote health because one or two of their ingredients may have positive health benefits like vitamins, minerals, or herbs.  Again, some of those ingredients can be harmful&#8230;some herbs can have stimulant or depressant properties.    Wisdom demands that you be aware of mixing any kind of substance that has the power to affect how the body operates or functions.  Care must be taken because you could be, in effect&#8230;mixing medications by drinking these drinks along with taking legal, prescription medications.   The average person or teen may not be aware that drinking  these drinks can cause a harmful interaction.</strong></p>
<p><strong>           The availability of these drinks is as easy as the nearest vending machine, convience store/gas station or grocery store.  They can be a bit pricey, generally around $3.00 a piece.   The products often appear as a can of soda in an aluminum container&#8230;sometimes they are bottled in glass.  Do you know if your child has had access to these drinks today?  <span id="more-2736"></span></strong></p>
<p><strong>            Adults use these products as well.  However, if you are going to purchase these drinks for your teen or preteen; or, allow them to be used by your children; at least teach them to read the labels.  Teach them to understand that the numbers are often doctored by dividing the calories, sugar levels, caffiene numbers according to servings; not by listing the total amounts in the can.  The consumer has to understand that there may be MORE than one serving per can.  This makes all the difference in how the person&#8217;s body handles the drink; consuming a serving or the whole container in one sitting can be the difference between a positive or a negative after effect.</strong></p>
<p><strong>         Whether the consumer is an adult, or teen, or pre-teen; it is a good idea to communicate that too much caffeine (whether it be in coffee, tea, soda, hot chocolate energy drinks) can dehydrate the body and damage the kidneys, heart, or other organs.   Encourage them to drink plain old water to re-hydrate the body when they drink these kinds of energy or anti-energy drinks.</strong></p>
<p><strong>           As a side note, please be aware that some of the anti- energy drinks can have just as damaging effects on the body.  They are just like they sound&#8230;.the opposite of energy drinks.  They have substances such as herbs and hormones in them that produce a slowing down of energy levels.  Some of them even add melatonin, a hormone that is naturally produced in the brain to promote sleep.   However, when this hormone is added into these anti-energy drinks it is not being naturally produced.  How much is too much for your or your loved one?</strong></p>
<p><strong>          Some users of these anti-energy drinks are using them to self -medicate either physical or emotional conditions.  If a person struggles with mental illness, depression or any other type of mood disorder&#8230;could these drinks cause them to experience mood swings of a harmful nature?  It would makes sense to me that it could.    There are also conflicting reports on the internet about these drinks ability to produce a positive result on drug tests.   For those individuals who are on probation or under a courts jurisdiction, this could impact them legally as well, if it is true that the drinks can affect a drug tests results.  </strong></p>
<p><strong>          I have even read that there are people who combine these drinks with alcohol.  Whenever people start using substances to alter their physical or emotional state of being you have to be careful.  These can become not only physically; but, psychologically addicting.  Teens who are wanting to &#8220;escape&#8221; painful emotional or physical situations can find themselves on a roller coaster of dependence&#8230;affecting not only their health; but, their relationships with their parents and their peers.  If they already struggle with addictive behaviors or choices&#8230;using these drinks to self-medicate can cause additional problems.</strong></p>
<p><strong>       Parents, many of you will not even be aware of this culture with your teens or their circle of influence&#8230;but, teens using these drinks is common.  If you purchase these energy drinks, or anti-energy drinks for your home&#8230;at least control how often these products are used.  But also be aware, they may be consuming them when you are not around to monitor their actions. </strong></p>
<p><strong>        In my opinion, it is better to prohibit the use of these drinks altogether.  I don&#8217;t see the potential benefits outweighing the risks, to the health and well-being of the person drinking them.   However, if you are going to allow it&#8230;at least educate yourself about your child&#8217;s views on these drinks and how they and their friends see these products in their daily lives.  You may be shocked at what you hear.  Many young people see them as non-harmful; and use them as commonly as they drink soda pop.  Do some research for yourself.  What are your thoughts on this subject?</strong></p>
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		<title>Bully For You!</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 02 Feb 2010 16:10:56 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rainy</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Bullying doesn't just happen on school grounds; kids are surrounded with bullying through technology.  Parents,educators &#038; advisors need to protect &#038; educate about the danger.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>For many of you as soon as you get past the next paragraph or so you will decide that this article isn&#8217;t for you&#8230;it doesn&#8217;t apply because maybe you dont have a teen or don&#8217;t work with teens or young children.  I ask you to keep reading anyway.   I titled this article Bully For You because there is a dangerous trend going on in American society today&#8230;it is a trend of bullying.   Bullying is becoming more aggressive than it used to be and it was never a good thing.   It is happening in grade school, high school, college, the work environment; and, believe it or not&#8230;even in nursing homes; in fact, it is happening everywhere in- between as well.   If you are old school in your thinking regarding bullying&#8230;let me educate you&#8230;ignoring a bully doesn&#8217;t work; beating them up doesn&#8217;t work.  So what does work?</p>
<p>Bullying is more complicated these days because of the way in which it is done; it is psychological, it is persistent, and it can include threats, violence, or even sexual threats.  Most people over the age of 40 remember the school bully&#8230;you know the one.  He/She was the person who everyone feared and gave a wide berth to just because he sought out and picked on those he/she knew for a fact that they could take on and win.  We all have had some relationship to that kind of person.   However, now it seems that there is a group mentality when bullying or persistent harassment starts up.</p>
<p>  Back when i was growing up you had one of two options&#8230;ignore that person and stay far away from them or &#8220;stand up to them&#8221; and work up your courage to go toe to toe.  Remember the childhood phrase that we were all taught&#8230;sticks and stones will break your bones but words will never hurt you?  That couldn&#8217;t be farther from the truth; we all know that words have the power to destroy a person&#8217;s self-worth and the value of that person in the eyes of others.</p>
<p>Everyday it seems that we hear about another child/teen/college student that has been bullied or cyber stalked and trash talked about.  Many of those cases either end in a suicide or a violent attack or even in some cases of extreme bullying&#8230;a retribution plan of attack on a school with a violent outburst.  Lives are ruined, hearts and minds are damaged; many individuals end up in prison because of bullying.</p>
<p> A real danger is people who think that bullying is a normal part of growing up&#8230;it isn&#8217;t and it should not ever be allowed.  Making excuses and telling a victim of such behavior to just ignore it is equal to nullifying their experience with bullying&#8230;which in effect tells them that they are powerless to change their circumstance in a positive way.<span id="more-2666"></span></p>
<p>There is a hopelessness about our young people.   Many of them, in a desperate need to feel something, are self mutilating, becoming promiscuous,  developing eating disorders, or diving into the world of drug/alcohol addictions in reaction to their feelings about themselves and their lack of proper treatment by others.   They have been conditioned to think that nothing is going to change for the better; so they feel angry, bitter, broken and depressed.</p>
<p> Don&#8217;t fool yourself into thinking that it doesn&#8217;t affect you, your children, your grandchildren, or the children in your church or neighborhood.  It does; and things are getting desperate.  Kids feel threatened, they feel demeaned and they feel powerless&#8230;so, many of them will arm themselves and things escalate quickly.   This is good for no one.</p>
<p>Respect for themselves as well as others is important to fight bullying.  Finding mentors for our young people is helpful&#8230;getting involved in sports or extra curricular activities that give them an appropriate sense of pride in themselves and their involvement.  Community service that gives them a sense of personal value and connects them to others who recognize their strengths and talents.  Inspiring hope and promise for a future is what kids need.  Instead, we often find that our young people aren&#8217;t getting those important messages about themselves.</p>
<p>With all of the new technology, kids are able to be &#8220;connected&#8221; 24 hours a day to not only their friends; but also, to people who wish them harm.  This connection includes cell phones, cell phone pictures, texts, email, chat lines, websites and forums.   Kids live in the midst of a multi-media blitz in their lives in school and at home.  Pay attention to them closely; watch for any changes in behavior, attitude, relationships and moods.  It could be life and death-for them and anyone who is in their lives, personally and socially.</p>
<p>Don&#8217;t think, not my child, not my child&#8217;s friend or the kids in my youth group.  I&#8217;ve worked with kids most of my adult life; for well over 30 years and things have broken down.  Kids, even good ones have low self esteem, they are depressed, frightened and angry.   Many of them don&#8217;t feel loved (even when they are), they don&#8217;t feel valued, appreciated or listened to.  They feel trapped and alone or isolated&#8230;even when they are surrounded by friends and activities.  It is a recipe for disaster not to recognize the patterns or seeds of destruction.</p>
<p>In truth, it makes you want to build a fortress around them to protect them against those who seek them out to do them harm.  So what can a parent, an educator, a spiritual leader, a friend, or a sibling do to help those caught in the web of persistent bullying/stalking?</p>
<p>First of all, pay attention.  Listen closely, monitor things&#8230;set limits of exposure online.  Talk to them and their friends about situations of bullying in their school or social networks.  Document any kind of negative interaction&#8230;write it down, talk to the school administration, file a report, alert teachers, bus drivers, neighborhood watches to any kind of bullying or violent situations that may come up.  Create a network of awareness and prevention where you can.  Ask your school to bring in safety experts and relationship experts who are trained in these areas of concern. </p>
<p>Expect there to be resistence from the powers that be.  Many of them will give lip service to the no tolerance rule of bullying&#8230;but never, EVER, let them talk you out of filing official reports or grievances.   Often a school will just expell a student for a short time as a discipline&#8230;never following up with corrective action such as counseling or conflict resolution.   Leadership must establish methods of dealing with this type of behavior in a constructive way. </p>
<p>For the victims of bullying or school violence&#8230; it may be helpful to have some self-defense training, some skilled training about paying attention to their surroundings and who is in their direct physical environment; making judgement calls about making decisions about where to go and with whom.   Get restraining orders or personal orders of protection if you feel it is something necessary to the physical and emotional well-being of the victim.     In some cases, change schools or even in extreme cases&#8230;it is best to even move or send them to live with a relative temporarily-especially if there is gang involvement.   This is no small thing to overcome and you do not want a victim of bullying/violence to become a prisoner to fear in their everyday life.</p>
<p>Does that sound like an over-reaction?  I can assure you that it is not; don&#8217;t believe me?  Watch the news, listen to a mother or a father that has lost a child to school violence or bullying; they would do anything if they could go back and do something different.   Or maybe listen to the child who in reaction to the bullying, who took matters into his/her own hands and tried to retaliate only to end up in prison for years or for life.  That ought to convince you that taking drastic measures to protect your child or your family is a good thing.  You see, persistent bullying often spreads and becomes a contagious thing&#8230;affecting other family members or sometimes even others in the neighborhood.   It is serious, but things can be done to improve the situation; get good advice from law enforcement or safety experts on the matter.</p>
<p>Ok, remember that I mentioned that some of you wouldn&#8217;t make it this far because you think it doesn&#8217;t affect you.  These young people who are traumatized, or trained to protect themselves emotionally by closing off normal pathways of emotion, are going to grow up.  They are going to become doctors, lawyers, nurses, teachers and nursing home supervisors, counselors and so on.</p>
<p>If their standards of what is acceptable, in relation to inappropriate levels of behavior have been damaged, are you going to want them caring for your grandchildren in day care, or taking care of one of your loved ones in a hospital or nursing home setting?  If they have learned to accept that kind of treatment in their own life, they surely won&#8217;t recognize it as inappropriate behavior in relation to others like yourself.  </p>
<p>Please, love on the youth today build them up and help them to be strong individuals in a healthy way; care for them, listen to them, protect them through legal channels and through school policies.  You won&#8217;t regret being proactive in the name of what is right!</p>
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		<title>National Security-I Don&#8217;t Want To Be Shocked</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 07 Jan 2010 15:47:29 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rainy</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[A report on the nations security regarding the recent attempt to bomb an airliner will shock many people.  This terrorism information will open eyes to the danger.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>        Today we are being warned that the new report about how our nation&#8217;s security was lax when the Christmas bomber attempted to blow up a flight will cause shock to the man (woman) on the street.  Here is a news flash&#8230;I don&#8217;t want to be shocked; and, I don&#8217;t think that most of America or, any other nation for that matter wants to be shocked either at how such a situation could happen.</p>
<p>         I listened to the White House&#8217;s national security advisor, General James Jones say that the authorities know what happened, what didn&#8217;t happen &amp; what steps to take to prevent it from happening in the future, so that there is not another incident.  He said that it isn&#8217;t like they have to re-invent the wheel&#8230;the failure to respond to the red flags that should never have allowed Umar Farouk Abdulmutallab, the suspect to fly are preventible. </p>
<p>          Ok, so General James Jones is right&#8230;people will be shocked at all of the failed steps that are there to protect us.  Was this all human failings&#8230;or failure of judgement calls&#8230;or was there out and out neglect of duty?  Was there no electronic or digital barriers that could have thrown up a red flag to warn that this person was a risk?  The report will be an eye opener to more than just those travelors at risk&#8230;it will open the eyes of anyone who is on the ground as well&#8230;these planes fly over vulnerable targets.  The information in this report will also be available to those (terrorists) who desire to target Americans or any other country with their plans to destroy and attack. </p>
<p>         I don&#8217;t want to be shocked&#8230;I want to be safe, I want travelors to be safe, I want to know that even if noone I know or care about is flying that those planes and their passengers are safe and will not endanger anyone else while in flight.  Failure to protect is unacceptable;  so, while they dont think they need to re-invent the wheel&#8230;maybe they should consider trying to because, if we are all informed by this report&#8230;dont think that the enemy is not also going to learn a few things from it!</p>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 15 Dec 2009 00:35:41 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rainy</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Parents, educators and health care professionals should be aware of the choking game and look for signs of it affecting those they care about.  It affects teens, pre-teens and even some adults.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>       For those of you who have not heard of the choking game, let me fill ya in.  This game shouldn&#8217;t be childs play; but, it is, in some communities.  The choking game is one in which a person&#8217;s air flow to the brain is restricted; either by someone else &#8220;helping&#8221; choke the person with their hands or some other item such as a scarf, rope, ace bandage, or anything that could be used to wrap around the neck and limit the blood flow; or a person doing this to themselves.   Sometimes kids call this &#8220;game&#8221; other things like Blackout, or the fainting game.   Now many readers are wondering why someone would do this; isn&#8217;t it dangerous?  Yes, most definitely&#8230;it can cause brain damage,damage to the eyes, skin damage, structural damage to the bones  or muscles in the neck and it can even cause DEATH. </strong></p>
<p><strong>        Why do some people do this?  There is little documentation to examine all of the reasons that people/teens/preteens play the choking game (sometimes called other names such as the fainting game); or even how often this &#8220;game&#8221; is played.</strong></p>
<p><strong>           There is not enough awareness of the problem in society to be watchful of it or the consequences of such activity.  It is thought that some people play this game to get a &#8220;high&#8221;&#8230;because when the oxygen levels drop off, some individuals experience a brief feeling of euphoria while others feel that the experience will add layers of erotic or sexual feeling.   There are others who get involved with the choking game because of a dare or challenge, and still others use peer pressure to get friends or acquaintances involved.  Some challenge others to do the choking game as a form of entertainment because when the person is once again free to breathe normally, sometimes involuntary twitching or muscle movement occurs which they find amusing.  </strong></p>
<p><strong>        The thing is, there is no way of knowing who will die when playing this game, how long it will take for this thing to cross over from just being short of oxygen; to actually causing damage to the person&#8217;s well being/health, or causing their death.  This is very dangerous.</strong></p>
<p><strong>        So, what are the signs that someone you know is playing this choking game or fainting game?  First and foremost, not everyone who does it, talks about it or shares it with the people that they are close to.  But sometimes they do, friends talk about it or joke about it&#8230;pay attention; it could mean life or death for one of them!  That is why some deaths that occur are thought to be suicide&#8230;because individuals who do the choking game don&#8217;t always do it with other people around&#8230;some people do this game alone.  That is even more dangerous because in the extreme loss of oxygen, the person&#8217;s ability to &#8220;stop the game&#8221; and losen the bonds that are restricting the airflow may be hindered if they pass out or lose consciousness; they could &#8220;accidently&#8221; kill themselves.</strong></p>
<p><strong>         It is important to look for bruising around the neck, on the eyelids or bloodshot eyes, severe headaches that occur often, unexplained bumps or bruises on the head, glassy eyes or, disorientation after having alone time away from others- acting dazed or confused, hostility in a normally docile person, wearing unseasonable clothing such as turtle neck shirts in warm weather or things that cover the neck.  If you have access to their private room; look for things such as belts or scarves tied to the bed or doorknobs, or anything that wouldn&#8217;t normally belong there that would indicate it being used for such purposes such as bungi cords and the like.  </strong></p>
<p><strong>        This isn&#8217;t just a kid thing either&#8230;it sort of crosses over with some adults who enter into a closely related activity which is erotic asphyxiation.  That is when a person uses the loss of oxygen to amplify their sexual stimulation&#8230;this is also extremely dangerous, whether the person doing so is alone, or with a partner.  Just this past year, David Carradine-famous actor, was found dead in a hotel room, in Bankok, Thailand.  He was found in circumstances, which many believe are related to such auto erotic asphyxiation activity; although some believe he may have been murdered, even though some former wives and sexual partners say that he practiced extremely dangerous sexual activities in his private life.</strong></p>
<p><strong>         Regardless of age, using any object to limit the amount of oxygen getting to the brain for a game or sexual pleasure is dangerous and people should be informed of what is at risk.  Parents need to know about this activity to be on the alert to any behaviors that might shed light on the fact that their child or their child&#8217;s friends may be participating in such risky behaviors.  </strong></p>
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		<title>Run Don&#8217;t Walk To Raise Money For Homeless Youth</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 05 Dec 2009 23:44:04 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rainy</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Tellman Knudson, internet entrenpeneur, has set out on a mission to raise funds to help at risk homeless youth to get themselves out of dangerous situations; with a goal of teaching them business and life skills.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>     There is a great undertaking going on as I type this post.  There is a man, an entrenpenuer, by the name of Tellman Knudson who is doing something unique.  He is running BAREFOOT, across the country for over 3,000 miles, to raise $100 million dollars to help homeless and at-risk youth.  You might ask yourself why he would do this; after all, that is a long way and a whole lot of money to raise.  What if he isn&#8217;t able to reach his full goal?  What the heck, he is focused on achieving his goal, often at great personal sacrifice.  He has a vision or a mission.</p>
<p>      Many people don&#8217;t realize the extent of the problem of homeless youth.  They are at risk for drugs &amp; alcohol addictions, prostitution, violence, human trafficking, HIV, suicide, teen pregnancy, abuse, abortion, early death, mental &amp; physical health problems, and crime &amp; imprisionment.  It doesn&#8217;t have to be this way.</p>
<p>       Tellman started out with this challenge in Battery Park in New York in September of 2009; he plans to end the journey within 99 days in California at the Santa Monica Pier.   He has been documenting his journey as he goes.  He started in September as I said, and the route has changed some; which is good considering that winter has fallen in many parts of the northern &amp; eastern states.  He is meeting great people along the way.</p>
<p>         Tellman Knudson believes that the homeless youth are great problem solvers and are good at surviving.  He wants to harness those skills and teach them to reduce their risk- related behaviors; and, to get themselves out of whatever kind of dangerous situations that they are living in.  After he has accomplished that, he hopes to be able to teach them business and life skills using their unique problem solving abilities.  That $100 million dollars will be put to good use.  Tellman knows that this is a group of individuals worth saving&#8230;he was once a troubled youth himself who faced many challenges including a debilitating leg condition which hindered his ability to even walk well.   <a href="http://runtellmanrun.com/press-and-sponsors/who-is-tellman/">http://runtellmanrun.com/press-and-sponsors/who-is-tellman/</a></p>
<p>        He has suffered a severely brused, painful heel condition which required him to recently reduce his running schedule.  He has been advised by a doctor to only run 3 miles a day and to only run 5 days a week instead of the 7 that he was running.  This will of course add time to his original plan of running this journey in 99 days time.  No matter, he is following doctors orders and doing as he is told so that he can still achieve his goal.  In the meantime&#8230;.</p>
<p>       Tellman Knudson is in Atlanta, today, trying to raise funds in the internet community at the Sheraton Hotel where a seminar is being held with many of his friends and supporters.  He asks that we wish him luck; but, I say&#8230;even more than that&#8230;send him money!  If you go to his page you can donate online, what do you say&#8230;are the youth of today worth investing in?  <a href="http://runtellmanrun.com/">http://runtellmanrun.com/</a>   This isn&#8217;t just a holiday charity drive&#8230;this is Tellman&#8217;s purpose and passion&#8230;won&#8217;t you help?</p>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 17 Nov 2009 16:16:28 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rainy</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[November 17th, 2009 is Fight For Preemies awareness campaign day; the March of Dimes is doing it's part to help fight premature births and its devastating effects.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>     When you are expecting a baby in your family the last thing you want to happen is to have your child born prematurely; yet, in America each and every day 1 out of every 8 babies born will be born prematurely.  It isn&#8217;t always understood why babies are sometimes born prematurely.  What we do know is that babies who are born prematurely are at a higher risk of birth defects and death.  This is not acceptable.  November 17th is the take a stand day; otherwise known as, Fight for Preemies Day.</strong></p>
<p><strong>       Bloggers everywhere are taking up the battle cry and trying  to create an awareness of the issue.  For anyone who has loved someone who has had to face a premature birth&#8230;they understand the struggle.  There is fear, danger, health issues&#8230;financial issues and there is bonding issues because of hospitalizations after a premature delivery.  That is if you are lucky &#8230;and the baby survives the premature birth&#8230;many do not.  <span id="more-2563"></span></strong></p>
<p><strong>        I had a nephew named Aaron who was born weighing in at one pound &amp; four ounces during the eighties&#8230;he lived a very short time dying from complications from a premature birth.  I know the trauma of premature birth.  It leaves a whole in the lives of those it touches.  Since that time, I have had a couple of grandchildren who were also born prematurely who have survived and thrived thanks to the medical advances that we have made in this country.  We have learned alot since my nephew was born all of those years ago.</strong></p>
<p><strong>       For many children who are born prematurely; they struggle with immediate and long term health issues.  There can be breathing problems, internal organ damage, brain damage, learning disabilities&#8230;the list goes on.  Each week of pregnancy is important&#8230;the baby is constantly developing and being born too soon puts that development at risk.  In fact, the baby&#8217;s very life is at risk when born too soon.</strong></p>
<p><strong>        Families expecting a picture perfect delivery are often under extreme stress.  Often their dream of holding their infant and feeding their infant at home in a rocking chair with friends and family coming to visit is delayed because of the special needs of a premature birth.   Holding their baby might involve reaching through the isolette with gloves on their hands while they wear hospital gowns and protective face masks.  Feeding their child may involve a tube through the stomach.  </strong></p>
<p><strong>        Elimating as many threats to the health of children born early is important.   The <a href="http://marchofdimes.com/prematurity/index_about.asp">March of Dimes</a> is doing their part to help families who struggle with issues resulting from premature births.   </strong></p>
<p><strong>         Please wont you help them raise money and awareness about the <a href="http://marchofdimes.com/prematurity/index_map.asp">Fight For Preemies</a> .</strong></p>
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